The days have become a bit easier for me now. I’m sure it’s partially due to the fact that I’m more used to her, and more used to understanding what she needs. I can distinguish cries more easily, the hungry cry is different from the wet cry or the bored cry. We know what works, and what doesn’t.
We don’t go through as many “major” tantrums in a day any longer. I think that partially has to do with her being on medicine for acid reflux. She had a hoarse cry for a week or so, and the pediatrician suggested we try out the meds to see if it helped. In all honesty, I was hoping it would be a cure-all. I thought maybe she was just in pain from the reflux all the time, and maybe that’s why she had been so difficult. It’s helped with the all out screaming (for the most part), but she still is who she is. We have good days and bad days.
I know in the mornings that the bouncy chair works. She likes to play in the afternoon – now that she can see further, she loves her Lamaze play gym (which is awesome by the way, check it out) and sometimes she just wants to be alone, she loves to lay on the couch or in her crib and look around. Lately in the evenings, the swing works (which she hated in the beginning).
My best advice – try everything, multiple times. If it doesn’t work one day it will work the next. And when all else fails, leave them alone to take in the world.
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